Regardless of whether you are dating single cowboys, bikers or other types of guys, first dates are always stressful. So, to help you prepare for your big night out, we’ve have made a list of 5 useful tips that will help you make a great first impression.
If you really want to win a guy over, don’t be afraid to show him your fun and playful side. Now, don’t get us wrong, we’re not saying that you should act like a complete goofball. However, you be able to relax and be yourself. If you are the one who can make his day brighter, he will surely want to go out with you again.
Be a little bit mysterious
Even though it might be tempting to spill your guts out and tell him everything about yourself, it isn’t very wise though. Therefore, instead of telling him your whole life story, pick the important parts and focus on them. Do you want to know the name of his uncle or how his best friend from third grade broke his leg? Probably not, just as he most likely doesn’t want to know every little single detail about you. Well, at least for now.
Keep the conversation light and breezy and try to make him laugh. Talking about your health issues, your low-self esteem or your fear of dying can ruin the mood and make him want to strangle himself with a napkin. Instead, talk about things that make you happy, your interests and your hobbies.
Ask him questions
Keep in mind that guys like to talk, especially to a woman they find attractive. So instead of hogging the spotlight, be sure you ask him questions and give him the opportunity to show off a little bit. Not only will you show him that you are interested in what he has to say by doing this, but that you are respecting him as well. Would you want to go out on a second date with someone who didn’t give you a chance to talk? Well, neither would your date, so let him speak too.
There is nothing more attractive than a woman who is confident enough to be herself. Bear in mind that spotting a person who is faking it is not that difficult, so if your potential match catches you with your hand in a cookie jar, you will just embarrass yourself.