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What does BDSM Mean to Me – Bondage and Domination Confessions

BDSM – although we all think we have a pretty good idea as to what it is – isn’t something that we encounter every day. Only a minority of people can tell you what does BDSM mean, while rarely anyone knows what does BDSM stand for.

In order to give you a quick course on “BDSM for Beginners,” we’ve decided to contact two BDSM enthusiasts who were willing to share their experiences with this complex sexual preference in order to give others a better insight. Without further delay, here are their confessions.

Dylan, 44

If someone was to tell me that I would be into ropes and chains in bed one day, I wouldn’t have believed them. Yet, here I am, a bondage expert and a man who has an immense collection of bondage props in their possession.

My first encounter with bondage was over the internet. I’ve stumbled upon a few bondage videos on a porn site and it seemed weird and intriguing to me at the same time. I never really showed any interest for atypical sexual preferences, apart from lesbians and bisexual women, but that’s a pretty normal thing for a guy who watches porn regularly.

I didn’t give it much thought right there and then, to be honest. A couple of years have passed and I started dating this pretty wild girl – she was up for anything in bed. It was actually her who brought up bondage and wanted me to tie her up with a rope before we started having sex. We did it and it was very, very fun, I have to admit.

The next time we were about to make love, she asked me if I was up for being bound. I hesitated at first, but I ultimately agreed – and it was the best decision I’ve ever made. I’ve been practicing bondage regularly ever since and I don’t have a single regret about it.

Brittany, 27

Although I am feminine and curvy (at least that’s what I’ve been told), I’ve always liked being the one in charge both in bed and outside of it. Some people may call me a control freak, but I like to see it as being determined and decisive. Either way, I’m here to talk about how that affected my sex life, so I’ll focus on that.

I’ve had a few boyfriends in college, none of which could handle how I behaved in the bedroom. It’s not like I’m aggressive or pushy or anything – I just like to lead the way. I have a very strong libido and once my engine starts humming, it’s very hard for me to restrain myself from being the dominant one during sex. However, it wasn’t until I met my current boyfriend that I discovered just how dominant I can be.

My boyfriend and I met thanks to a friend of a friend of a friend. We’re very different both in everyday stuff and in sex, but he was the one who opened my eyes to domination. Once he saw how horny and dominant I could be in bed, he suggested that we try actual BDSM domination. In short – we did and we both loved it so much, we can’t stop doing it.

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