Dating for disabled is nothing unusual these days. Handicapped singles are leading active and fulfilled lives. They visit disabled dating sites, go on dates, find love and create memories. If you are looking to get back on that horse and you are worried that your game is a little bit rusty, don’t worry. Here are some tips which should help you have a successful first date.
Keep your date short and sweet
The point of first date is to see whether you have chemistry. If you both want to see each other again, you are on the right track. You don’t want to waste all of your jokes and anecdotes on the first date, do you?
Meet in the afternoon
This is a great tip for two reasons. First, if you have a dinner date, you might end up wondering if they will ask you to come over, or if you should do that. This can all create an unnecessary tension, so coffee dates are the best. Secondly, during the afternoon you will be safe if something with your date goes wrong.
If you have ever in your life been on a date, you are probably tired of all “So, what do you do” questions. Try to be more original. Ask your date what their favorite childhood book is, what is the weirdest thing they have ever eaten or where would their dream vacation be.
Stand out from the crowd
Whether you are dating disabled singles or you are one, try to include some excitement in your night out. It doesn’t have to be anything spectacular. There is nothing worse than a boring date. If you are silly, be silly, if you are funny, tell some jokes. Just do anything that will make your date remember you.
If you are late it shows that you don’t respect the other person and their time. Show up on time looking your best. When you are going on a date try to be the best version of you. If you show up wearing old jeans and a stained shirt your date will not be impressed.
Art of flirting
If you are indeed interested, show you date by getting a little physical. It doesn’t have to be anything sexual. Just a simple touch of their arm can let them know that you are interested in a subtle way.
You can’t be in a relationship with someone with whom you have no chemistry at all. Concentrate on your date. Can you imagine kissing the person that is sitting in front of you? If not, cut the evening short. It will save you some time and money.
End of the date
If you don’ mean to call that person ever again, just be polite, say that it was nice meeting them and go home. Many people automatically end their dates with “I’ll call you”. Don’t do that if you have no intention of doing that. But, if you liked that person, send them a casual text tomorrow. Don’t follow the three-day rule. That will just give your date time to cool off.