From the looks of things, everyone is sexting these days using all sorts of platforms that provide messaging services. It seems almost necessary to have good sexting skills to be able to date successfully, but some of you are feeling insecure about ‘verbalizing’ your sexual desires and pleasure, and passing it on in a few hundred characters.
This is perfectly understandable because just like most men out there are not white knights, most women are not insatiable whores either as the porn industry would like us to believe. On the other hand, keeping up with the times we live in and changes brought on by technology is most certainly a good idea, so today we learn how to sext like pros.
We’ve prepared a list of tips for you designed to make you more comfortable when Skype sexting with a partner who’s away or with someone you’ve just met online for the purposes of killing some time after work.
Tip #1: Get Comfy
If you want to sext like a pro, you need to be comfortable with what you’re doing. Given that you’re not just there yet, one of the things you can do is make the setting comfortable in which you’ll practice your sexting skills. Choose a sexting place in your home, like your bedroom, and lie on the bed as if your partner was there with you. Put on some music and light candles if that helps put you in the mood. Sexting in sweat pants and an old, smelly t-shirt is not a good idea for beginners, so either dress up or put on some sexy lingerie.
Tip #2: Practice Makes Perfect
The more you sext, the sooner you’ll start feeling more comfortable with it and move on to Instagram sexting or even Twitter sexting. You might even end up having your favorite Kik sexting forum, but until then you need to cover the basics and make sure you can loosen up on short notice. If you have a partner who’s just as uncomfortable, you can practice your sexting skills together and explore how far you want to go. If you’re looking to sext with a random person or a casual acquaintance, you need to push yourself out of your comfort zone slowly but surely. In the beginning you’ll feel silly or maybe even unfit to do this, but once you get through your first sexting session, every subsequent one will feel much easier, and ultimately more pleasurable.
Tip #3: Keep it Explicit
Your hot and steamy Skype sexting session is no place to be cute. A sexting pro doesn’t use silly emojis and never tries to be adorable. A message containing hearts and teddy bears screams 12-year-old niece, and the only better way to kill the mood than to act like a 12-year-old niece is to steer the topic of conversation in the direction of dead dogs. Keep your sexts as explicit as possible, and choose your words carefully. As you get more sexting sessions under your belt you’ll start to feel more comfortable with using words and phrases that are genuinely fuckable, which should be your ultimate goal as a sexting beginner.